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How to Cross Stitch

Cross stitch is counted embroidery: you follow a grid chart and make one X-shaped stitch in each square of the fabric. These step-by-step instructions cover the supplies, preparing the fabric, making the stitch and finishing the piece.

Last reviewed September 15, 2026 · How these figures are calculated

What you need

  • Fabric. 14-count Aida in white or cream. Its block weave shows every stitch position clearly.
  • Thread. Six-strand embroidery floss such as DMC or Anchor, in the colors on the pattern key. The thread calculator estimates skeins.
  • Needle. A size 24 tapestry needle for 14-count. The blunt tip slides through the holes instead of piercing the threads.
  • Hoop. A 6 or 8-inch hoop for small projects. Check the fit with the hoop size calculator.
  • Pattern and scissors. A chart with a color key, and small sharp scissors for trimming thread.

How to read a cross stitch chart

Each square on the chart is one stitch. A symbol or color in the square tells you which thread to use; the key matches each symbol to a floss number. Blank squares stay unstitched.

Thicker grid lines every 10 squares make counting easier, and arrows on the edges mark the center. Solid lines drawn over squares are backstitch, worked after the crosses. Ticking off finished areas on a printed copy keeps your place.

centreone square = one stitcheach symbol = one floss colorheavy line every 10 squares
How a cross stitch chart is laid out. Each square is one stitch and each symbol is one floss color. Heavier lines divide the grid into blocks of ten so you can count quickly, and the arrows on the edges mark the centre, which is where you start stitching.

Check how much fabric to cut before you start:

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Fabric count

14-count Aida · used by most kits and patterns

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Step-by-step cross stitch instructions

skein6 strands as cut2 strands to stitch with4 strands kept for later18 in (45 cm) length
Separating floss into working strands. Embroidery floss is six strands loosely twisted together. Cut a length first, then pull strands out one at a time and put them back together: pulling two at once twists and tangles them. Most cross stitch on 14-count uses two of the six, so one skein goes roughly three times as far as it looks.
121 up, 2 down123Needle up at 312344 down: cross completesame tilt every timeRepeat along the row
Making one cross stitch. Come up at 1, down at 2, up at 3, down at 4. The needle always passes through the holes at the corners of the square, never through the fabric blocks themselves. Whichever diagonal you put on top, keep it the same on every stitch, or finished blocks of color look uneven.
  1. 1

    Cut and prepare the fabric

    Cut Aida to the design size plus a 2 to 3 inch border on every side. Tape or zigzag the edges so they do not fray.

  2. 2

    Find the center

    Fold the fabric in half one way and then the other. Mark where the folds cross with a pin or a few basting stitches.

  3. 3

    Separate the strands

    Cut about 18 inches of floss and pull out the number of strands the pattern calls for, usually 2, one strand at a time.

  4. 4

    Start without a knot

    Use a loop start with 2 strands, or hold a 1-inch tail on the back and cover it with your first few stitches.

  5. 5

    Make the cross

    Come up at the bottom-left corner of a square, go down at the top-right, come up at the bottom-right and go down at the top-left.

  6. 6

    Stitch in rows

    Work a row of half stitches in one direction, then cross them on the way back. Keep every top stitch facing the same way.

  7. 7

    End the thread

    Slide the needle under 4 or 5 stitches on the back and trim the tail close.

The loop start

Take a single strand twice as long as usual and fold it in half. Thread the two cut ends through the needle, leaving the loop hanging. Come up through the back of the fabric, make the first half stitch and, on the back, pass the needle through the loop before pulling snug. The thread is anchored with no knot, which would leave a bump under a framed piece. It works for any even number of strands.

loopFold the strand, thread the endsback of fabricPass the needle through the loopflat on the backPull snug: anchored, no knot
Starting without a knot: the loop method. Cut one strand twice as long as usual and fold it in half. Thread the two cut ends, leaving the fold as a loop. After the first half stitch, pass the needle through that loop on the back and pull gently. The thread is anchored flat, with no knot to show through a framed piece. It works with any even number of strands.

Stitch in rows, not one cross at a time

For any block of the same color, work along the row making only the first diagonal of each stitch, then come back the other way completing the crosses. Two passes across ten stitches means 20 needle movements in a steady rhythm, instead of constantly turning the work. Most stitchers find it noticeably quicker than finishing each cross before moving on, and the tension comes out more even because every stitch is pulled the same way.

Single crosses still make sense for scattered stitches: one stitch here, two there, the kind of area stitchers call confetti. Finish those individually rather than carrying thread between them.

Getting the tension right

A correct stitch sits flat against the fabric and the hole it came through stays round. If the holes pull into ovals or the fabric bunches when you take it out of the hoop, the thread is too tight. If the stitch looks loose and you can lift it with a fingernail, it is too slack and will snag later.

Stop pulling as soon as the thread meets the fabric rather than tugging to a stop, and let the needle hang every few stitches to unwind the twist that builds up in the floss. Twisted thread is the usual cause of stitches that look thin or ropey next to their neighbours.

Finishing your cross stitch

Check the back for loose ends and trim tails longer than about 5 mm. If the fabric is marked, wash it in cool water with mild detergent, dry it flat and press it face down on a towel. The framing guide covers mounting and display.

Mistakes to avoid

  • Mixed stitch direction: Keep the top leg of every X going the same way, or solid areas look patchy.
  • Pulling too tight: Stitches should lie flat without drawing the holes together.
  • Carrying thread far on the back: Jumps longer than about 3 squares can show through light fabric. End and restart instead.
  • Starting in a corner: Counting from the center keeps the design centered on the fabric.

Frequently asked questions

Do you separate the threads before starting?
Yes. Embroidery floss has six strands. Cut a length, then pull out the strands you need one at a time so they lie flat and do not tangle.
What part of a cross stitch pattern do you do first?
Start at the center of the chart and the center of the fabric, and work outward so the design stays centered. Stitch all full crosses in an area first and add backstitch outlines last.
How do I find the middle of my Aida?
Fold it in half both ways and mark where the creases cross. On a 12 × 9 inch piece, that point is 6 inches across and 4.5 inches down. Charts mark their center with arrows on the edges.
Is cross stitch hard to learn?
The stitch itself takes minutes to learn. Even tension, consistent stitch direction and reading a chart accurately come with practice, usually over the first two or three projects.
Can you cross stitch without a hoop?
Yes, especially on small pieces. A hoop or frame keeps the fabric taut so stitches lie evenly; without one, watch that you do not pull the thread tight and pucker the fabric.
Should I wash cross stitch when it is finished?
Washing removes hand oils and marker. Soak in cool water with a little mild detergent, rinse, roll in a towel, then press face down on a towel while slightly damp.

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